I in particular object to the notion that things of value should be 100% backed by actual USD, in bank accounts or cash. That's not how liquidity works, yet a lot of people intuitively believe this to be so.
Banks and gold deposits re-lend money because it makes them money and they can sell the storage service for cheaper. If you want something that won't be loaned back out then you can buy that service pretty easily.
And stock prices changing is a very different thing. The actual supply is there, and entire markets caps can and do get sold in things like mergers.
This is also why a fraction of a market cap (say a few billion) can dramatically move a stock price of a 1 trillion market cap.
Same for Bitcoin. If its market price crashes, the same amount of Bitcoin exists. Yet this means nothing as only the BTCUSD pair is worth anything.