As described, you're _only_ relying on client TLS to protect your database. What if the TLS key leaks? So you're down to one layer again - one mistake and it's game over. So maybe you need Hashicorp Vault so you can have client certificates with very short validity periods. So do you expose Vault to the Internet, so you can fetch your client certificate to query the DB? What if Vault has a bug? And it's turtles all the way down ...
I love zero trust designs. But I think saying you can just slap client TLS on the problem and be done is laying the foundation for a repeat of this event - however you look at it, you want redundancy in your security.
If you have 100 devices on a network where everything is unprotected, that’s 100 different ways someone can try to get full access to 99 other devices.
You’re simply pointing out that no amount of layers are foolproof. The goal is not to reduce failure to 0% but to 0.001%.
An easy way to get independent failures is to layer a private network with strong auth and firewall rules. While it's certainly possible to expose your DB to the internet safely - given sufficient protections - you won't get that with just a TLS key. And even if you try to implement the "obvious" additional layers here (Vault, right?), it's easy to inadvertently include design problems that reduce to "only one failure and the system is exposed."
Maybe there is no excuse, but literally every company I've worked for (including Fortune 500s) has been missing at least one item from your list. So "industry best practice" means committing less time and money than it would take to implement all those things properly (rightly or wrongly) and you need to triage and prioritise.
You see this "authN/authZ above all else" line of thinking in Google's security design [0], with their ubiquitous login wall. For their employees, that login wall has extra hardening - you can't do regular password resets, and you need to possess a physical security key (which acts basically as a scaled-down single-purpose HSM) and pass a suite of posture checks on the device (proportional to the sensitivity of the protected resource) to pass through it.
Then they put this login wall in front of everything, even internal services, and that tends to be OK because the system "fails closed," and the only way to access their protected resources is via physical safe rooms deep in the Google offices in which elevated privileges may be obtained.
Putting all your systems on the Internet forces you to get the incentive structure right, and that can be useful in companies where "private networks" can serve as justification to weaken security - if your login page is Internet-exposed, then you simply have no choice but to make it strong enough to withstand the chaos of the Internet. There's significant merit in that.
[0]: https://sre.google/books/building-secure-reliable-systems/
This is in vogue but it’s wrong because it presents this as an either/or.
In reality, people are going to goof up and auth flag at one point, accidentally bind a service, or just run a service with a 0-day (a.k.a everyone).
There is no reason to run a server accepting traffic from every IP if your clients are coming from known ranges.
People see the zero trust model and mistakenly think it means no network-level filtering. This is completely wrong and all of the big players still protect backend services with network ACLs on top of required auth.
I am looking at, make private network, and then you have to explicitly add an gateway (usually a load balancer) that can access it.
In short don't design system where you need to filter, design the system, where you need to take explicite action, to make something public.
This is easily, done on something like AWS.
And his second point is table-stakes as far as I'm concerned. As others have said, do all of them. They are not hard to do.
1. Be cautious about trendy technologies that promise to make life easy - often they cut corners to do so, and often security is one of those corners
2. Use real authentication rather than network firewalling. Make your datastore TLS-only and require a valid client certificate to connect; that way it doesn't matter if it's exposed to the internet (indeed I'd argue you probably should expose every server to the internet - much like Chaos Monkey, it's counterintuitive but it forces you to build your systems with the right kind of resilience from day one)