It’s not really a choice, rather than an often very difficult process of discovery, if they manage to accept it at all. A good friend of mine struggled for years with their self acceptance and I only realized that in restrospect. But coming out liberated them and an avalanche of happiness, productivity and positivity happened.

It’s a real struggle, and by belittling or ignoring it we can only make it worse. It’s time to listen, respect and embrace.