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Re:Bumble closes to give 'burnt-out' staff a week's break by chrisseaton on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @10:45AM (#27592319)
I only know through friends, but dating in your 30s seems like an absolute nightmare - they all hate it and find it completely joyless and deeply cynical. Trying to fit someone new into an already fully-formed life at that point seems very hard.

Also 35 is the point where medicine considers a pregnancy to be 'geriatric'. And some people are going through menopause by 40! You don't have an infinite amount of time in life no matter how positive your outlook!

Re:Bumble closes to give 'burnt-out' staff a week's break by claytongulick on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @12:05PM (#27593422)
Well, a different perspective (as someone who was unwillingly tossed back into the dating pool at age 38).

While online dating was indeed a bit of a nightmare, dating older women in general was a net positive for me.

I liked people who have lived life a bit, made mistakes, hopefully learned from them, are past the point of obsession about body type, and are more focused on character and how to treat/be treated properly.

People do learn and grow as they age, and most of us become better people.

Re:Bumble closes to give 'burnt-out' staff a week's break by rkk3 on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @01:31PM (#27594552)
> Also 35 is the point where medicine considers a pregnancy to be 'geriatric'.

Which is a dated term that isn't used frequently. Yes the risks for certain things increase after 35 but pregnancy after 35 or 40+ is healthy and common.

> some people are going through menopause by 40!

The average age of Menopause is 51, before 40 is considered "premature menopause".

https://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/premature-menopause-sy...

Re:Bumble closes to give 'burnt-out' staff a week's break by tablespoonsruby on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @04:45PM (#27596951)
Not to mention that plenty of people (men and women) just don't want kids.
Re:Bumble closes to give 'burnt-out' staff a week's break by chris1993 on Tuesday June 22, 2021 @07:06PM (#27598478)
The technical term was 'geriatric primagravida' for us with a first child at 32! It felt quite insulting at the time.