Part of this was informed by my past experiences…
To me, this whole thing about Rust and its decorum in language debates reminds me of those projects that don't have codes of conducts, but instead a "be excellent to each other" policy. I believe what you're saying is something the Rust project wants to be true. But that doesn't make it so!
I say this with love as someone looking forward to the next couple thousand lines of Rust I'm going to have to write at my job.
What do you think is disrespectful about the about page? Maybe this is like, part of where we differ. Stating facts plainly, and talking about tradeoffs isn't disparaging. This is an engineering discussion. This isn't contempt culture. This isn't some sort of "JavaScript is shit and anyone that uses it is an idiot," which is an attitude that is a problem and is corrosive. The about page doesn't even say C and C++ are bad languages! It says that characteristics of them make it unsuitable for a specific kind of application, due to requirements that they believe are important. That's it.
And yes, I do believe that it is something that the project and project leadership wants to be true, that is less true the further you get away from the project itself. We do not have the power (nor the desire) to control what every single person says on the internet. It is about leading by example. We do not make language comparisons in official marketing or documentation, when people show up and are flamebait-y and disparaging of other languages, we tell them "hey we don't do that here" and ask them to cut it out. To me, this feels very, very different and better than a lot of language spaces. YMMV.
"bad for society" => "WannaCry cyber attack cost the NHS £92m as 19,000 appointments cancelled"
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/technology/2018/10/11/wannacry-c...
"bad for your reputation" => QualPwn vulnerabilities in Qualcomm chips let hackers compromise Android devices
https://www.zdnet.com/article/qualpwn-vulnerabilities-in-qua...
"bad for your customers." => Israeli Software Helped Saudis Spy on Khashoggi, Lawsuit Says
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/02/world/middleeast/saudi-kh...
Now lets get back complaining about the semantics of the sentence.
"Many years later we asked our customers whether they wished us to provide an option to switch off these checks in the interests of efficiency on production runs. Unanimously, they urged us not to--they already knew how frequently subscript errors occur on production runs where failure to detect them could be disastrous. I note with fear and horror that even in 1980, language designers and users have not learned this lesson. In any respectable branch of engineering, failure to observe such elementary precautions would have long been against the law."
C.A. Hoare stated on his Turing award speech done in 1981.
I can relate to other remarks or papers from memory safe systems programming all the way back to 1961, when Burroughs B5500 was released.
Yet many keep not paying attention, like Microsoft bosting 70% memory corruption issues on one side, while selling Azure Sphere security pitch having only C as available language, or bosting the use of C++ on WinUI, among many other examples.
I fully agree that sentence is terrible. I did not see that when making my comment.