Re:Apology
by whatshisface on Thursday June 17, 2021 @06:20PM
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What's a bully? Someone who loses their temper? Someone who's scary and makes enemies more easily than friends? I think a bully is someone who uses intimidation to get their way, if someone intimidates random bystanders what they have is a need to work on their emotional self-control.
It's more like someone who habitually uses power in a mean way.
Re:Apology
by whatshisface on Thursday June 17, 2021 @06:25PM
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There's a difference between someone who is naturally mean and happens to be in power and someone that uses meanness to get power.
The point is if you're in power it's more important to not behave badly than if you're not in power.
It's also easier in some ways, because you can get help from experienced outsiders who have a stake in your success and you can afford to experiment with improvement methods without getting fired. There are ways in which it's harder, such as if employees are too scared to tell you when you're being nasty.
But more importantly, he never admits to being a bully. The original post gives this incident as an example of a pattern of abusive behavior. He sidesteps that entirely.