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Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by vbezhenar on Friday May 28, 2021 @06:24PM (#27321237)
It's the same in Russian actually. You're saying "how are you" ("как дела") after "hello" ("привет"), but you're not really expecting any meaningful answer other than "I'm OK" ("нормально") or "I'm fine" ("отлично").

But it might be one way to start a conversation when you want to tell something you don't like. Like "How are you? I'll live. What happened? ...". But it's more of closed friends conversation when you can feel OK sharing your burdens with other person. I guess, similar thing could happen in US?

Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by Clewza313 on Friday May 28, 2021 @08:32PM (#27322082)
From now on, I need to start responding to "How are you?" with "Normal".
Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by sray on Friday May 28, 2021 @09:41PM (#27322429)
My favorite response to “How are you?” comes from a Russian former coworker: “Average. Worse than yesterday, better than tomorrow”.
Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by andai on Saturday May 29, 2021 @01:39AM (#27323290)
I heard this phrase described as "Russian Optimism".
Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by Slow_Hand on Saturday May 29, 2021 @02:37PM (#27327292)
American here:

I did it last night with a cashier and she laughed and was, I think, amused by the novel response. It seemed to brighten her up a small amount. She then continued to make conversation by saying “Well let’s see if we can’t get you to better than normal.” That was slightly offputting and I wish she didn’t feel the need to take it there. I’m perfectly content with feeling “normal”.

I suppose the way I think of it is like dynamic range of expression. Normal is baseline and perfectly suitable. It’s where I like being. Great or bad are for special cases where I feel extraordinary.

Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by ph0rque on Friday May 28, 2021 @08:54PM (#27322205)
My go to answer is, "can't complain". Vague enough to leave it alone if the question is trivial, but also open-ended enough to expound upon if the other person is genuinely interested in my well-being.
Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by CRConrad on Thursday June 03, 2021 @08:37AM (#27380330)
Reminds me of the old joke:

-- What, "can't complain"? Really? You're in a Siberian prison camp, starving and freezing your toes and fingers off, and you "can't complain"?

-- Yes, when you're in a Siberian prison camp, you can't complain...

Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by scruple on Saturday May 29, 2021 @01:38AM (#27323288)
Me, too. It's a very Midwestern response... [0]

[0]: https://youtu.be/vm-MrkoJPC8?t=35

Re:Why Russians do not smile (2002) by gsk22 on Saturday May 29, 2021 @01:55AM (#27323341)
I also like "hangin' in there" -- especially since Covid started.