The infectious dose of SARS-CoV-2 is as low as 10 viral particles and a single cough can release 123,000 viral particles.
If I shot 123,000 bullets at you, would you be happy with a shield that protected you from 80% of them?
At any rate, masks have proven to be incredibly effective, but the truth is that we don't know exactly how... common sense has not been particularly informative in understanding the spread of this virus.
You would on the other hand expect a 100% fatality rate if you fired 123,000 bullets at each person in a room. So your analogy is faulty.
20% to 80% of filters is not good enough in a healthcare setting since a provider may be in a room absolutely filled with virus particles.
In a public setting, 20% to 80% might be enough to limit incidental viral loads enough to prevent infection.
It's hard to define the effectiveness across a wide variety of settings a cloth mask might be used in.
It was kind of a way to make people with valves n-95 masks feel “guilty” for wearing them.
A low enough load is like a natural vaccination. You don't get sick, but you get some immunity. A high enough load and you can get the sickness very severely. It's a gradient, and masks help put you lower on that gradient than otherwise.
As long as it's even marginally effective (and evidence suggests it's more than marginally effective) then it is a good idea.
Studies are clear though. This one found non-N95 masks filter 20-80% of particles. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullar...
It defies common sense to say that won’t help the wearer! We haven’t done challenge trials, but the burden of proof is on those saying that a material covering the face and which filters out 20-80% of virus sized particles somehow won’t stop viral infections.