My index fingers are longer on palm side but ring fingers are longer on back side.

I do have a lot of anxiety, I am not muscular but rather skinny fat. I am also attracted to yoga, running, swimming, etc instead of more manly sports like football or even soccer. I do lift weights though. Another funny thing, I tend to really enjoy games in which you play as female character like Tomb Raider and if a game let you pick your gender, I tend to pick female. Outside of video games, I have no desire to dress as a female.

Based on these traits it does seems I have "wrong" ratio.