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Re:Ask HN: What lessons did you learn from your best or wors... by ozim on Saturday May 15, 2021 @02:45AM (#27163005)
Thanks for following up.

Because I wanted to ask why he would be so mean to you. That insecurity part answers that.

Re:Ask HN: What lessons did you learn from your best or wors... by Aeolun on Saturday May 15, 2021 @05:22AM (#27163684)
I understand the insecurity part, I don’t understand the behavior. Or maybe I do, I just consider the person an asshole first, and insecure second.

I don’t enjoy being corrected by my team members either, but that’s more out of frustration that I did something wrong in the first place.

The act of correction may be annoying at times, but you absolutely shouldn’t punish the initiative.