My child was pre-verbal. It was a cartoon of a baby with an outlandishly large head with its mouth held open by ravens’ claws being force fed various inanimate objects like doll heads and machine engines. I shut it down within seconds of seeing it.

Answering your questions in that context is sort of ridiculous, but I’ll give it a shot:

1. At that age, my kid would watch whatever was on the screen, basically slack jawed. No bandwidth for anything else, really.

2. See above

3. There was no conversation.

And to answer your comments accusative sibling comment, my kid found it by tapping “next” repeatedly, or whatever was in the sidebar. Fwiw, I know “the phone isn’t the parent,” but the grandparents don’t have the same sensibilities around tech.