Re:Why People Feel Like Victims
by watwut on Friday May 07, 2021 @03:44AM
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It has zero to do with kids being told that this or that is unfair, that racism or sexism exists. The article blames lack of emotional support from parents. That sentence is literally tl;dr for the following:
> So when a child is very young, and care is uncertain, perhaps the caregiver, or the male figures in the child’s life, don’t act consistently, sometimes they may act very aggressively without warning, or they don’t notice that the child needs care. That’s when the anxious attachment style or ambivalent attachment style is created.
and followed by the following:
> Yes, normally children internalize the empathetic and soothing reactions of their parents, they learn not to need others from outside to soothe themselves. But people with high TIV cannot soothe themselves.
It is quite odd to take that quote out of context and make it argument about something completely different, as if surrounding context in article supported the other claim.
> So when a child is very young, and care is uncertain, perhaps the caregiver, or the male figures in the child’s life, don’t act consistently, sometimes they may act very aggressively without warning, or they don’t notice that the child needs care. That’s when the anxious attachment style or ambivalent attachment style is created.
and followed by the following:
> Yes, normally children internalize the empathetic and soothing reactions of their parents, they learn not to need others from outside to soothe themselves. But people with high TIV cannot soothe themselves.
It is quite odd to take that quote out of context and make it argument about something completely different, as if surrounding context in article supported the other claim.