> the great irony is that kids who grew up in wealth and surrounded by healthy parents seem oblivious or to not care whatsoever about such judgements from others. Are they ignorant or inoculated?

I think that we learn from experience, and experience has shown these people that judgement from others do not have any real effect on their lives.

Oppose that with people in less favorable positions, who have been badly affected in real life as a result of the judgement of others.

That’s where a lot of the difference comes from I think, in how different people later in life relate to judgement from others.