Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness
by electrondood on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @02:38PM
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I think the criticism was that the post's author expressed being deeply unhappy with himself to begin with, and the relationship was more like a bandaid that only covered up the underlying personal issues.
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Re:On incels, dead bedrooms and the hard problems of loneliness
by rini17 on Tuesday May 04, 2021 @03:07PM
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But it can equally well be the other way around: loneliness causes the unhappiness.
That's very unfortunate tendency how everyone here first assumes some clear-cut cause and effect, and then goes on from there to interpret someone's expressed feelings.