My experience with sexual harassment in the Scala community

Re:My experience with sexual harassment in the Scala community by stadium on Tuesday April 27, 2021 @09:40PM (#26964378)

My grandma had a campfire saying that "smoke follows beauty." I realized many years later as an adult that it was part of a subconscious family mythology, handed down for who knows how many generations. If you're pretty, it's your fault for unwanted attention (smoke).

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Re:My experience with sexual harassment in the Scala community by amscanne on Friday April 30, 2021 @11:10AM (#26994427)

It’s your saying, but it doesn’t read that way to me. It’s not your fault but it’s a consequence. Just like with a campfire, perhaps this gives people an ounce of solace with unwanted attention, i.e. you’re dealing with this because you’re lucky to be pretty. It’s still not right to have to deal with it, but it’s reality.

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Re:My experience with sexual harassment in the Scala community by theshrike79 on Tuesday May 11, 2021 @02:03AM (#27114726)

We have a saying that "smoke follows the sheep-fucker".

Different kinds of families, I guess =)

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