Eventually I learned that she claimed I was touching her daughter and was cheating on her with her coworker (whom I had never even met). I tried to defend myself but it was too late.
Today she has been married and divorced twice, and I have zero contact with any of those involved. I only know her status because Facebook doesn't stop sending me update email despite deactivating that account years ago.
Point is, the whisper network is powerful, and doesn't give a shit about reality.
It's a shame your ex made up lies about you, that probably happens a lot.
It is worth pointing out that you are trying to make a point with this story, and you are the only one telling it, and I'm supposed to take you on your word that this actually happened..
Yet here we have multiple adult grown adult women, unrelated to each other yet similar (minorities, poor, vulnerable), trying to make their point with 3x the "backing", and so many want to call them liars immediately.
It's funny in a sad way.
oh c'mon, it's insanely naive, let's dont try to push narration that those things do not happen
Edit: since I wasn't clear, I am looking for examples of when this has happened to you, or your friend, or anyone that you have heard of...
Edit 2: also by "pretty much" does not happen, I don't mean never happens. But I think the rate at which it happens is probably a rounding error, and I think a lot of people would rather just say "oh well they could be lying" before even bothering to read what they have to say.
Projared was fortunate enough to posses the mental fortitude and evidence needed to clear his name. Others in a similar position might not be as lucky.
These are grown intelligent women with no connection.
I'm not saying it's impossible they are lying, just improbable.
I'm sorry, I do not see the same likelihood of collusion in this case of intelligent women who had no relation to each other. I am not saying it is impossible, but I have a hard time seeing it.
That's not a safe assumption at all.
Innocent until proven guilty and all that jazz, but there will be assumptions nonetheless..
I would love to know what these women stand to gain by humiliating themselves if it is all made up.
narcissism, absolution of responsibility, validation, attention
TL;DR guy was falsely accused of rape and then harassed for a year regarding the incident with the help of university professors at Columbia.
I don't know about "a bunch of your ex-girlfriends" but never say never...
Or you associate with or are attracted to terrible people
This just pretty much does not happen without reason, and I think it is safe to say that if it did, you are probably a terrible person.
Cops work together, therefor they collude...
If you are in high school, and all the girls are teenagers and are in school together, they also may collude..
I'm sorry, I do not see the same likelihood of collusion in this case of intelligent women who had no relation to each other.
Also, it seems fairly presumptive to assume that ex-partners are intelligent. And to assume that intelligent people don't do crazy things(see: Lisa Nowak)
This just pretty much does not happen without reason, and I think it is safe to say that if it did, you are probably a terrible person.