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Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by Mediterraneo10 on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:30PM (#26946131)
> if you wanted to meet somebody you probably went to a nightclub

I'm sure that I have seen somewhere here before some hard statistics on where partners meet in Western countries – maybe someone still has a link. In spite of the existence of known meat markets, those meat markets are not the source of most of the population’s relationships. Instead, people come together through mundane things like friends of friends, people at work, people in the neighbourhood, classmates, etc.

Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by atmosx on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:40PM (#26946299)
The club thing is popularized by ads, movies, video clips, etc. It is not as common as TV makes it to be.
Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by pcbro141 on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:33PM (#26946170)
This Stanford study (2017) says 39% of hetero couples meet online today. Wow, that's really high if true: https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-...
Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by dvfjsdhgfv on Monday April 26, 2021 @05:47PM (#26948641)
"Online" is not equivalent to using a dating app.
Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by throwaway0a5e on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:44PM (#26946342)
Waste enough time flinging pigeons at the wall and eventually they all end up in holes.

If everyone spends a stupid amount of time with online dating then that's where a lot of the matches are gonna be even if it's not an efficient way to get that end result.

Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by EForEndeavour on Monday April 26, 2021 @04:17PM (#26947514)
How do you measure efficiency? Isn't "eventually leads to significant other" a relevant metric?

If couples are finding each other online more than they are elsewhere, then online matchmaking is outperforming offline channels.

Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by interestica on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:52PM (#26946456)
Re:Never Pay for Online Dating (2010) by purplecats on Monday April 26, 2021 @02:33PM (#26946166)
It doesn't seem _mundane_, it seems safe. They meet via social proof rather than via randomness.