It went too far. And although your attitude may be excusable and perhaps even rational, it is for sure not helping to get your country into a better state. Maybe it now seems impossible but the road to a nicer country starts by forgiving and then understanding. And then civil discourse, perhaps over dinner ;)
Sure, they wanted the Supreme Court stacked with conservatives, a hardline stance against China, a protectionist trade agenda focused on domestic manufacturing ... we've heard the apologetics. But if you're in one of the demographics that have spent the last four years living in fear and dread of what the social and political consequences of Trumpism and alt-right populism might represent, all you know is that those reasonable Republicans are willing to pay for their agenda with your safety, freedom and sometimes blood. They may not hate you as much as the extremists, but they'll tolerate the extremists all the same to get what they want.
That doesn't make them look sympathetic. The extremist elements that Trump's candidacy and presidency brought to the surface had been simmering in the Republican party for years, and they did nothing about it. There was no grassroots push within the Conservative movement or the Republican party to disavow the alt-right or white supremacist agenda working its way into the body politic, and far from separating their policy positions from Trump's poisonous beliefs and rhetoric, Republicans embraced them because to do otherwise - to even admit their house was in disorder - would be a show of weakness to the enemy.
And they still won't admit they made a mistake. The GOP would rather stand behind the woman who believes in Jewish Space Lasers and the QAnon agenda than risk loosing Trumpists in 2024 and finding a new, less insane direction for the party. Enough is enough already. Republicans can't have their cake and eat it too, they can't burn their bridges and cross them again, they can't ask for reason, tolerance and sympathy while doubling down on their support for the least reasonable, least tolerant and least sympathetic Republican since Nixon.