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Re:Word usage guidance and alternative terms by jerven on Monday April 19, 2021 @01:13PM (#26865276)
Ask a man how many guys he has dated. What is the more common connotation? Which is why it is about men first and women second in likelihood. Not about precedence of importance but precedence of likelihood about the genders of the people spoken about.

So for some people guys has a touch of the ladies not being explicitly asked for feedback to questions like "hi guys, where should we go today". Now this is not universal but language rarely is and context matters a whole lot.

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Re:Word usage guidance and alternative terms by damagednoob on Tuesday April 20, 2021 @08:47AM (#26873836)
> context matters a whole lot

Well yes, which undermines your example. When I see women use the term 'hey guys', they are normally addressing a mixed group, with no precedence implied or inferred. In a 1-on-1 conversation, I would find it weird asking someone their dating history if I didn't know what their sexual orientation was. Different context, different connotations.

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