I had the exact opposite impression. Indeed, this stuff is the cause of so much that gets attributed to something else (e.g. JavaScript framework churn being attributed to culture).
The problems caused by these issues compound as you work your way up the stack.
The thing about things designed with bad edge cases is that they can have dire consequences for some people, but as long as it works for most people, they stick around. Forever causing pain.
I've made a scripting language for videos games that some people use, and kept the semantics super informal, growing it quite organically, and it's worked out pretty well. Every time I try to nail down the edge cases I think "ah no, I'd prefer to have this all be undefined/erratic that to have people rule-lawyering their way into technically-correct but inelegant code". The main loss I've had from this is the inability to write a fuzzer, and in annoying some people (who use it or, for instance, wanted to write compatible compilers/interpreting). I do rely a lot on test suites for it (which also helps other when they want to do reimplementations), which provides a good amount of stability in spite of the fact that I never tell anyone what exactly counts as a valid variable name and amn't exactly sure what that is off the top of my head.
That said, nicely-specified programming languages that one can accurately comprehend + model with a human brain are super nice, allow for great tooling + better portability, and eliminate a large class of bugs that can be very troublesome. I'm a big fan of Go/C#, but they're not everything, and not from my point of view at all categorically better than other options.
Just look at the linux kernel. The tremendous amount of complexity and code need to support all the weird edge cases of hardware that does pretty much the same thing is mind boggling.
If you can ignore the edge cases yeah they don't matter, but as a language implementer these things matter. For the user, they are always present, when by mistake or by choice they are used, then they will matter.
So yeah, weird edge cases matter a lot! In fact trying to minimize them is very important to keep the complexity of systems down.
- Throwing a TypeError in those situations would itself require that particular edge cases are specifically defined in the spec to return TypeError, therefore actually making the spec more complex and creating more error situations for code to deal with.
- Some might get a benefit from the "implicit" behaviour even if it usually makes no sense at first glance (only in context with the other rules). Whereas TypeError is never useful in the happy path. An important idea in dynamic languages is to let the caller decide if a particular usage of a type makes sense, rather than the callee.
The obvious answer every engineer understands, as soon as it gets complex to work out the Order Of Operations, you make it explicit by adding parenthesis everywhere. Same thing with JS, once you have a chance for some of this weird behavior to show up, you make sure the types make sense.
It also kind of cemented for me that weird edge cases don't actually matter in practice (in my experience), and that a language can have lots to make fun of while still being lovely to use.