That's unduly personal and crosses into IPD (Internet Psychiatric Diagnosis). Please don't do that here–the odds that it will land well with the other person are vastly smaller than you expect, no matter how helpful your intentions are.

https://hn.algolia.com/?sort=byDate&type=comment&dateRange=a...

What works better is to share some of your own relevant personal experience, if you want to.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html