Re:Ask HN: Is startup PTSD real and possible?
by throwawayboise on Saturday March 13, 2021 @12:38AM
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All of that is fine except the have a kid part. Don't bring a person into the world with the thought that he/she will motivate you to unfuck your shit.
It's better to look at it as a game and an experiment. If someone gets too in-love with their "baby," emotionally or identity/ego, then they won't be able to pivot, chop it up, exit, or strangle it.
Take a break, get a job, go on a coke bender, sleep with 3 affiliates of VCs, become a Twitch DJ, vlog from India, sell windmills, have a kid, whatever it takes to get back to making a living or trying to make livings. It can be difficult to unfuck your shit after a big loss, do whatever physical or emotional labor is necessary to get back to an even keel. Psychological and/or pharmacological assistance could be needed for some people.