They're incredible :)
Then there's the issue of signal attenuation at distances like these, along with the power budget from the solar panels to ensure that you aren't burning all your power just on laser comms.
I can't imagine these links would be anything more than 1:1 at any given time, at least not at first. Maybe later they might be able to handle simultaneous laser links from 1:3 or something like it, but I highly doubt that's their current capability.
Even some of the best latest ground-to-sat laser comms links are on the order of ~7 gigabits per second. [1] I imagine those are far larger sats than Starlink, and their entire power and thermal budget is likely spent on comms. And the ground stations can be orders of magnitude larger and power hungry in relation to a Starlink sat. Note also that this is from GEO, so you aren't likely having to handle substantial relative movement either.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laser_communication_in_space#2...
Satellite-to-ground optical laser links are another matter, but you can always route a few hops around weather systems.
https://www.spacex.com/careers, category "software development".
But I do see on the careers page there's now a (single) Palo Alto based Software Engineer position open.
Intriguing!
The second challenge is that I am in a position to be reasonably frank when the biggest threat one can hold over me is to be fired. I have found that some managers don't appreciate employees for whom their "hire/fire power" over them doesn't give them any leverage. This combined with a general perception that I am a good manager, means that I tend to develop a followship whether or not I'm in a leadership role. This can lead to "issues" no matter how hard I try to prevent them.
Or does the "eligible to obtain the required authorizations from the U.S. Department of State" apply?
If I were you, I'd read up on ITAR qualification and, if you think you would be eligible and are highly qualified, just apply.
I'd love to be on the Starlink team, they are building some really cutting edge stuff. There are not many places or times where you can have such a big impact on the world and their team happens to be one of them. Good times.
[1] https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/05/200522095504.h...