Worth noting that Matrix's crypto is also based on Signal's algorithm (but extended to support efficient encryption in rooms with a large number of participants).
I was confused since the tone of that sentence sounded weird (Apart from <positive>, it also <negative>), but I think it's a typo - I believe you meant to type "Apart from Telegram not having E2E encryption by default"?
Signal's double ratchet algorithm is easily the gold standard for now and there's little reason for anyone pushing a E2EE privacy narrative to not be using it.
And I hate that Signal's identity is linked to a phone number.
You say that, but for a number of my contacts this is a significant hurdle... especially relatives.
people get that done - look at Instagram which grew despite having to do the exact same