Re:Ask HN: What are the best decisions you’ve made?
by Aheinemann on Sunday December 27, 2020 @09:07PM
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Exactly that.
This means accepting loss and hurt.
Definetely a very hard thing to do if the bad people are familiy.
Might be impossible if the bad person is your spouse and you have kids. Might mean that your kids are retaliated on.
but the most difficult thing is to be sure that they are the bad people and not you yourself. If you don't struggle with this then you might be the problem - Not them.
This means accepting loss and hurt.
Definetely a very hard thing to do if the bad people are familiy.
Might be impossible if the bad person is your spouse and you have kids. Might mean that your kids are retaliated on.
but the most difficult thing is to be sure that they are the bad people and not you yourself. If you don't struggle with this then you might be the problem - Not them.