Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of imaginary social contact

Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by adamlangsner on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @12:10PM (#25432271)

I do this. Sometimes it's in preparation for a conversation I know I'm going to have soon. Sometimes it's just because someone's on my mind and maybe I have things I want to say to them but don't currently have the opportunity to. I don't know if it's bad. But I don't like that I do it. And I wish I did it less.

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Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by Flex247A on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @12:13PM (#25432309)

I have had similar imaginary conversations like yours. But I am concerned because these conversations run in my mind for like several hours, even when I'm writing code.

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Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by auganov on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @12:41PM (#25432652)

You can talk to yourself out loud as if you were doing a screencast about whatever you're working on. Should override background verbal thinking. There are some positive correlations between self-talk and performance too, shouldn't hurt.

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Re:Lonely people's brains are different due to excess of ima... by adamlangsner on Tuesday December 15, 2020 @01:27PM (#25433231)

maybe u could buy a rubber duck and talk to it instead: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rubber_duck_debugging

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