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Re:How the self-esteem craze took over America (2017) by crocodiletears on Saturday November 28, 2020 @02:14PM (#25239712)
This was one of the most disheartening realizations I ever came to.

I know a lot of people with the kind of indefatigable optimism and self confidence that leads to success over the long-term. They're almost always failures, they're almost always wrong about intricacies of how the world works, and are blind to the difficulties faced by both themselves, and others.

A select few of them are very, very successful, and in spite of no clear superiority to their peers, their careers go up like bottle rockets with no shortage of fuel.

I don't envy them their success they've usually earned it about as much as anyone else. But I do wish I had the boundless sense of hope and energy they have, and the mindset that it takes to push through challenges like they do.

Re:How the self-esteem craze took over America (2017) by chasd00 on Saturday November 28, 2020 @10:05PM (#25242628)
"the mindset that it takes to push through challenges like they do"

when people say things like believe in yourself and you can accomplish anything! i think what they're referring to is this mindset you mentioned.