Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by meiraleal on Tuesday November 24, 2020 @07:47PM
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The point in discussion is what is a quality message? And what is considered garbage? While men think they are unattractive when they don't get matches in dating apps, women think they mencare unattractive when they can't match the best looking guys in the app.
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Re:A 4-month online dating experiment using 10 fictional sin...
by decafninja on Wednesday November 25, 2020 @06:20PM
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Do most women on online dating sites care about the quality of a message? And even if they do, how much quality does a man need to invest in drafting a message before he hits the point of diminishing returns?
I imagine a scenario that could happen frequently is that man new to online dating signs up, initially puts good effort into messaging select women he finds attractive, gets ignored a gazillion times, then throws in the towel and starts shotgunning. Or gives up on online dating altogether.