I thought of this connection because of the philosopher Daniel Dennett's writing about the Sphex wasp.
The Sphex wasp behaviour is common to most wasps. They are fierce mothers. I have seen it first hand with tarantula wasps in my farm where the female wasp will paralyze tarantula with a neurotoxin. Then she lays the eggs in the still alive tarantula’s belly. It’s insides liquify and after the baby wasps come along, they are nourished by the fortifying soup of the ..wait for it..still-living tarantula’s innards.
http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20150109-the-wasp-that-scares...
A more dramatic telling here on video: https://www.newsweek.com/horrifying-video-shows-giant-wasp-p...
Having said that, symbiosis only occurs with two distinctly different species.
With pregnancy and the human fetus, it’s is a kind of quasi-parasitic relationship because the host survives the parasite. Even though it’s changed. (Pregnancy changes body chemistry and functionally not just physical change)