Re:The biology of dads
by cortesoft on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @04:13PM
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I can totally relate to this. I have always been a completely non-violent person, but I remember the feeling of “I would kill to defend this tiny creature” when I became a dad. It was pretty powerful.
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This is also when you realize the insidious power of the “think of the children” argument. When someone manipulates you to think of your own children, they trigger that base instinct that’s hard to fight.
Re:The biology of dads
by colechristensen on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @05:31PM
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Many of the problems in the world boil down to intentional and unintentional manipulation of basic instincts/ traits/ weaknesses of humans. The biggest way to fight this is simply making people aware of them.
This sentiment used to annoy me as it seemed like a non-sequitur.
Now that I'm a father I'm much more wary of it because I know just what it means.
Re:The biology of dads
by lukaszkups on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @06:55PM
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+1 to this.
Some time ago a friend of mine from high school asked me how it feels to have a child and what do I feel for them - my answer was: "do you remember the time when you most powerfully fell in love to someone? Multiply that then by 100 and you'll get the answer" :)
This is my very most fav life quote I've ever came up with :)