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Re:The biology of dads by endymi0n on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @02:32PM (#25128514)
I also really, really wasn't into babies before becoming a father, then when they were there, it was actually kinda okay — but now that they can talk, reason and you can mess with them, it's definitely _so_ much cooler.

What's interesting though is that for me, having spent time with a baby seems to have changed some wirings retroactively. Just saw a toddler yesterday doing random things and having so much fun in the puddles, it was reeeeally cute. Good memories.

What nobody tells you though is that annoyingness and cuteness go hand in hand. As soon as they stop being annoying, they also stop being cute. It's hard to enjoy much of that cuteness because life's generally hard, loud and exhausting with a toddler. But as soon as it starts getting better, you also realize how much you miss that will never come back.

As Paul Graham said so wisely: There are only 52 weekends you will ever have with your three year old. Life is short, use it. Or at the very least, try to :)

Re:The biology of dads by oblio on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:25PM (#25129291)
> There are only 52 weekends you will ever have with your three year old.

I'm confused. Shouldn't it be 156?

Re:The biology of dads by Tsiklon on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:54PM (#25129689)
I think the idea is that your three year old is going to be a very different four year old, who again was different to who they were as a two year old.
Re:The biology of dads by sacred_numbers on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:32PM (#25129402)
Not while they are exactly three years old. There will be 52 weekends with a one year old, 52 weekends with a two year old, etc.
Re:The biology of dads by Swenrekcah on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:34PM (#25129430)
They're only 3.00 to 3.99 years old for 52 weeks
Re:The biology of dads by nultxt on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:35PM (#25129433)
In 104 of those weekends, they're not 3
Re:The biology of dads by polotics on Tuesday November 17, 2020 @03:36PM (#25129462)
The first 104, she wasn't three yet...