If someone is giving you advice which worked for an unrelated condition, you're still ignoring useful information which may help someone you know if you actually bother to pay attention and remember it.
If someone is giving you advice for the same condition you have been diagnosed, you're taking information from authority figures (licensed doctors) over information from someone who is actually in the same boat as you, which seems foolish to me. Certainly un-hacker-like.
By the way, if you look at actual studies, results of surgery done for pain are not very encouraging -- less than half result in pain actually going away.
Did you try (increasing exercise/water intake/sleep/just not sucking)? How about (decreasing gluten/carbs/aspartame/"toxins"/bogons)? it's just low-hanging fruit.
Anecdotal advice is some of the most reliable, trustworthy advice that we come across.
All those studies are affected by agendas from dozens of individuals and organizations, not to mention potentially poor procedure and general incompetence.
You're being gifted information which was transported to you graciously from an actual human being who maybe actually had your problem and found something useful to help with it.
I think if I were you, I would reconsider how you view these situations.