(You can read a disk 10 times in series or 100-1000 times in parallel in 1ms; it’s practically an eternity.)
Or those that complain about RDBMS queries being slow, without having normalized their data or written proper indexes.
There is always bunch of people that don't know how to do things, and then there are those among them, that care to improve their skill set and get to know how to turn those knobs.
It’s not a question of whether there are knobs to turn. It’s about the typical experience of an actual person running a JVM app versus, say, C or Go, and those experiences are quite different.
And we’re also talking about running someone else’s app. If your database queries are slow, that’s a conversation between the DBA and the devs. If you’re running some Apache app, you’re probably not talking to the devs.
Most of the time defaults just work.
This hasn't been my experience at all after running java on production servers for over a decade.
That said you probably can’t get very far in c/c++ without worrying about memory the whole way through. So, you only worry about tuning when writing your code.
I have run operations for programs written in Java, C++, and Go. I've done it both at small companies and large companies, for everywhere from a rack of dedicated servers running Apache Tomcat to thousands of virtual machines running a mixture of C++ and Go microservices.
The constant thread is... over the last ten years... the people running JVMs complain about tuning the JVM, and always have stories to tell about it. The JVM is fantastically tuneable, and when people online complain about GC pauses or memory problems, there's often some way to tune the JVM to fix those problems. The JVM is amazing, it's a marvelous piece of technology.
But there's also a bunch of people who don't know how to do it and just turn knobs. Like, oh, customers are calling in to complain about latency, so I'll increase the size of the Java heap. (Which, for those not familiar with GC, will make throughput better but make latency worse.) Running services on the JVM means that "working with the JVM" is now a skill you need to select for whatever operations team you have, and if you're a company running a mix of different services (like, I don't know, some databases, memcache, load balancers, etc) then "knowing how to tune the JVM" competes with several other skills you'd like your team to learn.