this is my feeling on the matter as well, in comparing him with other children I've known at his age he seems smarter in lots of little ways, but also problematic in some ways.

Basically his problematic character traits came out when his mother took him to the kindergarten and he threw a fit at the wrong time, and from there on in it seems to me like they've been on a campaign to make sure he goes somewhere else.

Since I am generally able to get him to behave the feeling is if I had just taken him the first two days we wouldn't be going through this.