I wouldn't describe the model Y as fun to drive. It's comfortable and spacious but it's nowhere near a sportscar.

You should compare it to a BMW X6 or 6 GT, both of which are also not sportscars but still on the sporty end of the SUV like spectrum.

If you want to compare a fun to drive Tesla with a BMW I would take the Model S and the M5, both are large comfortable saloons designed to be fast.

I envy your wife then ;)

You're almost certainly not the target demographic for an M3.

Bwahahah. Well, at least this example of gatekeeping can't hold a candle to Porsche drivers.

I mean, it's not gatekeeping, I'm not saying you can't enjoy it. But the M3 is meant for people that want performance, handling, and mechanical experience.

If you enjoy the Model Y more than the M3, then you prefer it to a car that has much higher cornering performance, much higher acceleration from the 0-60 all the way to 155mph, and of course the M3 is a much rawer experience.

If you don't, that's fine, it's just that the M3 wasn't made for you.

Model y performance and especially model 3 performance is faster then M3 that’s why bmw sales are crashing, they lost the performance mojo

The Model Y performance is 0.2 seconds faster to 60, and slower in every single other performance metric, as well as has pretty low range. I wouldn't call it faster than the M3, unless all you care about it is pulls in a straight line, which is indicative of not really being the target market for an M3.

As for the Model 3 performance, I agree.