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Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by markrages on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @09:45AM (#24566967)
Do you consider spreading to other more vulnerable people as a bad COVID outcome?
Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by bumby on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @11:48AM (#24568421)
I do, but also think it deserves more context.

I’m not sure most of the public dialogue is framed correctly. As the parent comment stated, it’s about quantifying risk. We (humans) are generally bad at thinking about risk in statistically relevant sense.

Even before that discussion can happen we need to define what is the appropriate level of non-zero acceptable risk and how to measure it. Is it more appropriate to measure in utilitarian or absolute terms?(E.g., is the risk of death to an elderly nursing home patient equivalent to the risk of death to an otherwise healthy teenager? I.e. are ‘life-years lost’ more important than lives lost?) I don’t know the answers, but only once we understand that risk can we accurately mitigate it.

Bypassing all that is just layering assumptions upon assumptions

Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by necovek on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @10:35AM (#24567577)
GP comment says "for someone living alone" which I would consider an answer to your question.
Re:How to say no, for the people pleaser who always says yes by throwanem on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @10:54AM (#24567833)
That death and total recovery are the only possible outcomes is also an assumption.