Exactly this.
Money is a way to get other people to do things for you.
If you are happier doing the things yourself, the money doesn't have much use.
At a certain point, gaining more wealth just doesn't matter.
The only way you can liberate yourself from this is by getting your hands dirty yourself.
You can take pride in the work you get paid for and the work you do outside of work just the same.
Wealth should not be sneered at. Wealth buys a new well for your farm. Wealth buys you tools to expand your capabilities. Wealth allows you to exploit the capabilities of society to accomplish things beyond yourself. Do you want to preserve gun or property rights so you can continue to live a self-reliant lifestyle? That takes wealth(or you can cop-out and let other people do it for you).
I am well aware of the saying "sell your time to buy the time that other people sold", but that cynically omits the benefits of comparative advantage. Most HN readers time is far more valuable than a plumber or carpenter.
Are you sure about that? A good plumber, here in Seattle, can cost $300/hour.
I think it was Penn Jillette who basically said we should most value those who we’d want around in the apocalypse. Farmers, doctors, mechanics would all be worth more than a financier. Maybe the irony is that in the coming decades they will have their comeuppance if their jobs are least likely to be automated away
On the other end of the spectrum, they gamble on tulips. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tulip_mania
There's everything in-between. Factor in the universal human tendency for self-delusion, and you got tulip pushers who think they are moving the pillars of world.
The respectful position is "this isn't my speciality, it's yours, tell me what you need and I'll get out of the way."
"The time it would take me to acquire your skills is more valuable than what you'd charge to fix my problem" is acknowledging the plumber's value, not diminishing it.
You seem to be protecting a lot into a simple price comparison.