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Re:This Is What Your Unsolicited Advice Sounds Like by roflc0ptic on Saturday August 29, 2020 @12:59PM (#24317496)
But there's basically no situation a person can be in while remaining intact that they can't attempt to direct their attention. Falling off a cliff? The choice is available. About to get killed by a semi truck? Choice. Etc etc.

Perhaps where our models differ is that I think most suffering is second order. The first order bad thing happens, and it hurts. Then we think about it, and think about it in unhelpful ways, and continue to hurt ourselves further.

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Re:This Is What Your Unsolicited Advice Sounds Like by guerrilla on Saturday August 29, 2020 @02:42PM (#24318427)
> But there's basically no situation a person can be in while remaining intact that they can't attempt to direct their attention.

Except many mental illnesses, the example I'm pointing out for the third time now.

Moreover, you're advice is utterly useless to the person suffering in these situations. Again, we need yet another panel with someone being beaten to death with a pipe and you standing there saying "just direct your attention to..." (scream of "AHHHHHH"! overlaps the end of your thought bubble)

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