I grew up in Vancouver, BC, Canada. From downtown Vancouver you can see many mountains. When looking at the city skyline it is back-dropped with these mountain ranges. The combination impresses me even more than either the city or the mountain range.
Similarly, I look forward to seeing satellite constellations and behind them the stars. I would love for my kids to look up and be comforted knowing they can easily contact any other person on the planet. I want them to see the satellite constellations as a monument to human creation (10th wonder of the world), and be inspired to join that technological journey. I also want to point out the stars behind the satellites and have them be humbled by the magnitude that is space and bring with it hope and wonder.
While these satellites should try to be the least intrusive as possible, I'm not sure we need to think of it as a zero-sum game.
Around the fire at our last camping trip a couple months back, we had a contest to see who could spot the most satellites concurrently, and the record got up to 3. They still aren't very bright (many stars are brighter), but with more Starlink launches, that count will surely increase.
Honestly, I think the idea of a sky alive with dozens of fireflies criss-crossing the twilight is kind of cool.
You can't see them on a clear night. They're not a problem for human observation, only telescopes.
For the vast majority of the satellites in the constellation they are in fact not visible to the naked eye.
I've sat here for a few minutes thinking selfishly about never being able to experience Alaska wilderness on a clear night. Or late night stroll on a beach looking up, etc, etc forever about all kinds of personal moments that will never be the same.
However there's billions of people who have no idea what Starlink or Kuiper are that are going to find out the hard way when they no longer have that same night sky either.
I hadn't really thought about it much before because it was always framed as an astronomy problem, but it's really a whole Earth's peoples problem.