This is something you should have noticed under normal circumstances.
As far as anyone could tell post crash, the control arm had broken through, rather than coming loose.
I wonder if I can somehow get that removed if I take it to get checked out at a frame shop, it's a brand new Jeep and this going to follow it everywhere. I don't recall ever hearing about people removing wrecks, though. Not trying to title-wash but prove that it's fine for the next buyer.
Just wondering if the issue could have been prevented. Loose balljoints are notoriously hard to diagnose, since they are supposed to have movement and it's hard to distinguish "play" and "movement".
A ball joint popping out of the steering knuckle is probably one of the most critical failures your car can have. Hard to think of anything worse.
Even if your brakes all locked up at the same time, it would probably be safer, since there is less chance to immediately flip the car.