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Re:Alcohol as a social technology to check the trustworthine... by bawolff on Friday August 07, 2020 @11:55PM (#24088810)
Or just tell them No. As long as you are not hurting anyone, you're under no obligation to justify your life choices to your co-workers.

I suppose some people might find that stand-offish, but the type of people who won't respect boundries on something as simple as this definitely won't respect boundries when it really matters.

Re:Alcohol as a social technology to check the trustworthine... by sukilot on Saturday August 08, 2020 @12:10AM (#24088871)
If you refuse to befriend jerks, you'll tend to find yourself lonely often.
Re:Alcohol as a social technology to check the trustworthine... by bawolff on Saturday August 08, 2020 @01:12AM (#24089204)
And if you never stand up for yourself, you'll find that all the people you befriend happen to be jerks.

In real life of course you have to find a balance. There is a line and its going to be different for every person