I'm a consultant/contractor and sometimes do remote. Even when I was an employee, I've never been able to identify with the company's mission and goals or whatever it is that thing is that everyone else experiences. In fact, I found it extremely cringey whenever I had to take part in any company sponsored socialisation events though I'm willing to concede that it's simply the introvert in me feeling that way. Despite that I'm still able to enjoy my job because my focus is on doing good work to the best of my abilities. I get along with my colleagues and have made real friends with some of them even.

I believe it's best for people to learn to separate their employer from their identity.