Re:Americans Aren’t Making Babies, and That’s Bad for the Ec...
by mac01021 on Wednesday July 29, 2020 @12:26PM
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The thing is, depending on the power dynamics in your family, she might or might not lose a lot by not having a job.
If she's a homemaker, you have the ability, if not the desire, to hold all of the purse strings and possibly, in effect, monopolize all of the power to make decisions for the family - where to live, what to buy, where and when to travel....
If she works, even only earning $12k, her position in the family (when you're a controlling husband) is greatly strengthened.
To be clear, I'm sure YOUR actual relationship with your specific wife is much more egalitarian, so being a homemaker probably works well for her.
If she's a homemaker, you have the ability, if not the desire, to hold all of the purse strings and possibly, in effect, monopolize all of the power to make decisions for the family - where to live, what to buy, where and when to travel....
If she works, even only earning $12k, her position in the family (when you're a controlling husband) is greatly strengthened.
To be clear, I'm sure YOUR actual relationship with your specific wife is much more egalitarian, so being a homemaker probably works well for her.