To get to the root of this...You are likely hinting that it is a choice to have kids. But it’s also necessary for society that people have children and take care of them.
Disclaimer: I don’t have kids but might one day.
> You are likely hinting that it is a choice to have kids.
I did not, and my view on having children is not relevant here.
I have a young child and, over the last 4 months, have probably spent less time than ever doing work for my employer.
At the same time, just by having the right idea/insight at the appropriate time, I've probably delivered more value to my employer in the last 2 months than ever before.
I think and hope that the outcome of all this in terms of my career will be a net positive. But I guess time will tell.
Not directly, but having fewer outside-work responsibilities always leaves more hours in the day to chase a promotion.