It doesn’t sound extremely stupid to me. I’m not a person of color but can imagine how it might feel like the right time to shrug certain terms out of our public discourse.

That it does not upset you is of no consequence. That it may be hurtful to others has consequence.

It’s very little skin off our backs in the grand scheme. If it is a hill you’d like to die on though, do as you must.

I’d just suggest that there may be times things frustrate you that you do not understand, and it is then that it can be better to simply listen.

Take care.