If society's "normal" (which tends to include a "healthy sex life" or at least a supportive social community) becomes impossible for many to achieve, the question for many is no longer "maybe something is wrong with me?" and becomes "maybe society is the problem?"
Other than generalized chemical castration I don't see how you could eliminate the "problem" of most of the male population unfulfilled sex drive. For all its problems and unfairness, patriarchal society provides an answer to that problem, if an ugly one.
Traditional solution of the past was to lure them in the army and let them die in some foreign country.
Whether enough people would see such a thing as acceptable for it to become policy is an entirely different issue.
Mind if I ask what you had in mind to make you think that such a situation would dissuade someone from raising a son?
I'm not really interested in that kind of conversation, thanks though!
Sounds like mental health problems are even more rampant than we guessed. We should probably handle that.