definitely a double standard. If a guy was writing all that, nobody would give a damn about what would be qualified in such a case as a whining of such a self-entitled special snowflake. "For the huge tech salary they make me do stupid things!" I remember there was another post of this author, and it was pretty obvious that a guy behaving that way would be immediately and unquestionably labeled "toxic person". I mean i'm ok with that double standard, as the tech environment may feel psychologically harsh for some people and they do need to have some slack cut for them.