I'm wondering if anyone on HN has recommendations for learning more about software systems architecture, distributed systems, scalability, etc., mainly with regard to internet/web systems or web applications? E.g. a book that might have a chapter on queue design patterns, when and why to use them, or a chapter on notification architectures, caching concepts, etc. Not just "this is what ___ does", but "here are some patterns for doing ___ and when you might consider them" (higher level info).

I find that there are a ton of great books along the lines of "How to build an app using ___ programming language" but I'm looking for something more along the lines of "Design patterns for building fast, distributed, resilient and scalable ___".

Reading a book, blog, or watching a talk tends to be my favorite mode of learning, so any suggestions along those lines would be greatly appreciated!