Nope, C and C++ compilers are not allowed to reorder struct fields (AFAIK at least, I haven't seen this yet in any real world compiler), but they will add padding bytes for natural alignment (and that's where the "waste" is coming from).

IMHO there are just as many arguments for automatic reordering as there are against it (e.g. creating structs that are layed over memory mapped IO registers, or just optimizing a struct for certain cache-efficient access patterns). In my opinion it's sufficient to know about the existance of alignment-padding, and how to work around it if needed (for instance reordering the struct members manually, or using #pragma pack)