I’m a resident of SF downtown and previously DC and Boston. Everyone I know has stopped leaving their apartments/condos except for fresh air and are trying not to go to any stores. When possible are having food delivered. My friends in NYC have all left except for one who has a large apartment and no family without taking a flight.

I think people see these studies of places they visited once and determine that those areas are way more dense and that they have seen the news and that all those deaths are due to tons of people having it.

That is just not true. The studies are biased and likely this will go on for a long-time. We know this is way more deadly than the flu. That is obvious when you look at simple examples like the princess cruise in Japan. How often do 7+ people die on a cruise ship on a single voyage?